Sunday, September 30, 2007 1:07:00 AM
Some Suggestions..
Actually no one can help, b'cz u r the 1 making decision. Make a fast 1..to be or not to be!
Or else u just have to bear with the pain for a while more. I think you shud make ur mind up early.
0k~ u see..u have 2 choices.
1. go back to him, let him know that you love him, tell him it is still possible between you and him. but he must cut it off with other girls and stop lying to you.
2. let him be what he want to be, start REALLY taking him as a good friend and forget about all the special feelings you have for him. let him go for the girls he like.
That's if..
He's a straight forward person. so if you want to tell him something, tell him what it is, dont make him guess, because chances are he'll get it wrong. He doesnt know what u want. That's y he cant make a decision. You make a decision and he will be able to make his.
He's a simple but a little bit immatured guy, so he needs direction.and you being the matured one, needs to give him that direction. He is hanging out with other girls because you are not giving him a clear message.
I am hearing from the both of you and i am seeing things.what you need to do now, is to ask yourself if you want to be with him. Remember, he is mixing with other girls because he lost you, not that he is a play boy. And make up your mind fast, else he'll just mix with more girls. He changed because he is not getting the message from you. It all begins with your decision,so just stop considering about other things.
your decision will affect everything. Once your make your decision, things will start to clear. He is lost, mixing with other girls, because he doesn't know if he can be with you.so when you make up your mind and tell him clearly,and he'll stop lying.
Do u see y it is not working? bcz u doubt evthing! & that stopping u from trying. u'll just get stucked here forever bcz u doubt evthing! i cant promise u a 100% success, but u will not get anywhere if u dont do anything.
Just remember, the slower you make the decision, the more painful it will be.because there will be more lies.there are not right or wrong decisions here. they both solve the problem, but in a diff way.