23 December
New hair cut... XD short front hair...

24th December
My always favourite..版面~

1st day out with my new hair...wakaka! look young!! XD 18? aye??? LOL

Christmas countdown party at white room..
well, this is my 3rd time going such places since 18..LOL
those places just don't suite me at all...*don't like*
But nevermind..
by the way, MERRY CHRISTMAS!
and Christmas without christ.. (Christmas - Christ = MAS)
MAS = meaningless and stupid! haha..





25th December
had dinner at Aunty Sally's place... =) woohoo~ turkey, salad, salmon...NICE! I LIKE!!

Simba..=) very naughty and cute indeed..
well, my parents don't seem to hate puppy..so can I get one too...? XD
*daddy giving simba white wine...* XD

26th December
Outing with my girls again~~ always NICE~ =)
Salim for dinner...Teh Tarik & Mee Goreng + telur~ yumm!

Then, we gave Siew Ping a Birthday surprise.. being "thieves" again. LOL! Photos with Jas..will only get once she back from China.
Because, our angela was so sick, so we celebrate Cherrie's and Pencil's in Siew Ping's house instead of Upperstar...=)
and, supper at Upperstar Damai..






27th December
Sunday Morning..Fish Head Noodle Soup!! yay~!
then, after service, went Damai 88 to eat BREAD KAHWIN! then, went Putatan to buy fishes. then Hi tea at Lintas, Fried Fu Zuk + Prawns and Cha Shao Bao & Bo Lo Bao...XD

28th December
Went karamunsing and center point..shopping day!! looking for dad's Birthday present..
Finally, Had McD..=)

Nokia 5800...for Dad. A new hp again.
"Why not N97?" he asked... -.-"
"You know how to use mer?"
"You teach me lar!"

Home made Gui Ling Gao~ =)

29th December
保弗面！hehe..

Jonathan and Jess's wedding.. =)
Oops..An "aunty" looks jealous on me... Gee~~~
because i'm younger? prettier? using LV purse? No idea..
but indeed, showing me and mommy "black face" whole night. LOL..
that's funny~

30th December
Went office as usual.. and dine out..again!!! LOL..
Kolombong Friendly Restaurant..LOL
Mr. Paul's cooking is always that nice..

22nd December.. A date to remember~ =)
..[1222]..
Happy 4th Year Anniversary..♥

No celebration needed though~
We both busy with our own programs..
Busy working.. =) Busy people..

Good Night~

19th Dec (Saturday)
Stay home, zzz...and went shopping with mom in the afternoon at Center Point + Warisan.. =)
She bought herself a red polo tee...for Christmas. haha!
We had Thai dinner at Damai.. only 2 of us, since dad had wedding invitation. FULL..very!


20th Dec (Sunday)
is SUNDAY..and of course church~! =)
we had 鱼面！=) yumm yumm~~ fish balls, fish slices, everything FISH! even the mee also fish!

After church, we had lunch at 88, Roti Kahwin! LOL..then mom and I went shopping again, and dad went to convention with his friends..

4pm..Out with the Sopo! Yoyo, Lintas..

7pm..we went to PKR Convention dinner at Ocean Sea Restaurant...
Well, although I didn't get to meet Anwar in person, but I met the others..such as, Christina Liew, Dr. Roland Chia, and so on..




21st Dec (Monday)
Had Burger King as lunch with Jasmine Wong~ haha!
Our common favourite, Chicken Royale!!

2pm..Hang Out with Aronie, Viv, and Joanne.. =)
Sing K at KK Box, Karamunsing (my 1st time), but well well...no current in the middle while we all enjoying. so we have another 1 and half hour to replace.. =)

and so..we had to Secret Recipe at Warisan..
Cheese cakes!!!! XD



8pm...Jasmine, Jessie and I went to pool session.. haha!
and then supper..
Jess is SO ADDICTED to Wo Tie!! LOL...



22nd Dec (Tuesday)
Went to office with mom this morning. well, stress! because, mom "forces" me to drive. man~~
"Do you think you can not drive for whole life?"
"I have lots of "drivers"..."
"You think people will pick you everytime? sooner or later you don't know how to drive if you don't...and you know, next year, you cannot drive my ninja king..."
Ah HAH! so that's the point. LOL...

We had dinner at uncle's place..
The wine room.. and dining table...

The bar

The living room

"divider"

middle of the house...walk way to "study room"..

Stairways..(to 1st floor)

I LOVE!!
I told parents when I reached home, "Why is my piano so small..."


Master bed room.. 2 more rooms..but, no photo taken.

From upstairs (1st Floor)

(2nd Floor)
nice nice...so called garden.






LOOK!! outside... taken from 2nd floor stairways..=)
lots of people..dining~~ around 20 tables..

Piano oo piano~~~

I Like this too...


Ground Floor....


instrumentals...!

From outside.. =)

My dinner...Lok Lok!

The band.. from Tshung Tsin students.

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15th Dec
My Lunch at Brisbane International Airport..a Sandwich plus extra large Mocha.. since I have free voucher, AUD$14.
The Big screen shows my flight delayed until 2:45pm, suppose to be 11:10am, so I check-in and went home. Reached airport again at 1:30pm.. grab myself a seat on the plane at 2:55pm, waiting for the mechanics to fix the system until 5pm.

Overnight at Brunei as my flight delayed from 11:10am till 5pm. Reached Brunei at 11pm. Is kinda surprise to see someone standing outside the exit waiting for me.. LOL. *as I didn't get to call/contact him directly instead of through his bro* At least I need not to starve or lock myself in Hotel doing nothing.
Time to explore Brunei..

SUPPER aka my dinner at Tutong..

The empirer... =)
*GOLD everywhere*






and the ISTANA..

Jerudong Park PlaygroundAddress:‎ (BIG BIG DIAMOND)

One of the Mosque...Gold Onion Head..

Been to Kampung Air, Chung Hwa school, Bandar, and lots lots of places.. =) But indeed, I remember lots of the places that I had been once or maybe twice before. *credit to Mr Jerry*
[owe me nasi katok..as end up having roti kahwin]

Back to Hotel around 2am.
Hotel I lived.. Orchid Garden.. woohoo...all alone~
Switch on all LIGHTS and TV and of course aircon.. while I zzzz....haha!


16th Dec
Woke up at 5am..and had my breakfast..*no appetite*


Christmas decor~~

Lobby~

and AIRPORT waiting for my flight...

finally AM HOME~ so good to see my mom standing outside the exit waiting for me too.
NO CURRENT?!!! and so, I end up going to office with mom hoping to sleep in aircon room. But whole Luyang and penampang no current..

Dinner at May Flower with parents and of course..that sopo! Miss Tiffany Chin Tze Ying and her parents. LOL... We went Ren Ai, Lintas.. my favourite almond jelly~~~ yumm yumm~~ head home after that, as I was damn sleepy~

17th Dec
Went office with parents...and our LUNCH!! KFC~!!!! woohooo~~~

After work, mommy and I went to buy fishy again~ hehe~ this time, we not getting Red Parrot but "Japan fish"..

Yes..is 17th Dec, and is parents' 24th anniversary of Marriage. =) we had Japanese food at Kana, Citymall..


and of course, we shopped around. This couple enjoying themselves very much~!!! LOL..*massaging* and guess who I met!!! CINDY BONG~!! LOL..

My "Japan fishy".. =)

18th Dec
Is public holiday, and parents not working. so we had DIM SUM at Wong Kwok with Aunt Ivy, Uncle Jeff, Uncle Tony and wife. SO NICE...SHAO MAI~~~ haha...

Then, parents and I went to Karamunsing to shop for laptop..
Had dinner at Hilltop with my uncles and aunty.. =)
then, s3he06 small gathering at Farmosa Cafe.. miss them much~

New jeans I bought~ =) LIKEY!!


Apple...hmm...Sony vs Apple..

St Paul says, “Love is kind” (1 Corinthians 13:4 TEV).
A loving heart is a kind heart. Thus a kind person strives to make others happy. When he does good work for others he is kind. A kind person blesses others and when he blesses others he blesses himself. Unfortunately, he often forgets to bless himself at home. He forgets to be kind to his family members! How? He performs with a sour face or neglects the family activities such as:
· Encourage each other
· Cheer each other
· Share time together
· Smile at each other
· Talk to each other
· Have meals together
· Help in the cooking
· Wash up after the meals
· Vacuum the home
· Hang up the washing
· Give up, readily, his favourite TV program to other
· Share the computer
· Give a listening ear, etc

Since all Christians are called and challenged to be kind, how do we show kindness? Kindness shows itself by being generous, compassionate, and friendly.
A kind heart is a generous heart. A kind hearted person is generous with his time, money, advice and knowledge. His generosity is kind, when he does it:
· privately---done not to be seen by others.
· sensitively---done with great consideration for the dignity and the feelings of the recipient.
· unselfishly--done not to seek praise, publicity or rewards in return.
St Paul reminds us that, “Whoever shares with others should do it generously; . . . whoever shows kindness to others should do it cheerfully.” (Romans 12:8 TEV)
A kind person is compassionate and he seeks to ease another person’s pain. He takes the time to soothe another person’s anxieties, fears or anger. He uplifts the down-hearted and the discouraged with kind words. He knows that a kind word is often sufficient to make a sad person smile.
A kind heart is a friendly heart. Thus he extends kindness by being a friend. He shares their concerns and their sufferings. He listens patiently. He offers the glad hand of friendship and extends goodwill towards others. So do I hasten to search out his virtues whenever I happen to see his faults? Remember, there is no happiness like that of a person whose heart is filled with goodwill towards others.
One thing a kind person always avoids is to hurt others with his criticism and sick jokes.
Although some people will take advantage of our kindness, we should never be afraid to be kind since kindness will do us no harm, brings us no bitterness and cause us no regrets.

Henri Nouwen tells us, “Being kind is a human attribute. When we say, ‘She is a kind person’ or ‘He surely was kind to me,’ we express a very warm feeling. In our competitive and often violent world, kindness is not the most frequent response. But when we encounter it we know that we are blessed. Is it possible to grow in kindness, to become a kind person? Yes, but it requires discipline. To be kind means to treat another person as your ‘kin,’ your intimate relative. We say, ‘We are kin’ or ‘He is next to kin.’ To be kind is to reach out to someone as being of ‘kindred’ spirit.
Here is the great challenge. All people, whatever their color, religion, or sex, belong to humankind and are called to be kind to one another, treating one another as brothers and sisters. There is hardly a day in our lives in which we are not called to this.” (Bread for the Journey, Feb 4)

Yes, all of us are called to be kind so as to bless the people we meet. Thus we need to constantly remind ourselves:
Am I kind to the harassed check-out cashier who makes mistakes in my bill at the supermarket?
Am I kind to the driver who cuts across my path?
Am I kind to myself?
Can I be kind to someone who keeps interrupting me when I am at the computer doing something I want completed?
Am I gentle to displeasing people?
Am I tender-hearted or is my heart hard like stone?
Do I have to wound with words of retaliation instead of being kind?
When I am insulted do I answer back with kind words? St Paul says that, “when we are insulted, we answer back with kind words.” (1 Corinthians 4:13 TEV)

Here is how Max Lucado explains about the kindness of Jesus in the story of the woman with an issue of blood for twelve years (Matthew 9:18-22):
“Later in the day a woman came by. Middle aged. Hair streaked with grey and pulled back. Dress was simple. Reminded me of a middle-school librarian. Face was wrinkled and earnest. Said she’d been sick for a dozen years. HIV positive.
‘That’s a long time,’ I said.
Long enough, she agreed, to run out of doctors, money, even hope. But worst of all, she had run out of friends. ‘They were afraid of me,’ she said. ‘Worried about catching the disease. My church hadn’t turned me out, but they hadn’t helped me out either. I hadn’t been home in years. Been living in a shelter. But then Jesus came to town. He was on his way to treat the mayor’s daughter, who was dying. The crowd was thick, and people were pushing, but I was desperate.’
She spoke of following Jesus at a distance. Then she drew near and stepped back for fear of being recognized. She told of inching behind a broad-shouldered man and staying in his wake until, as she said, ‘There were only two people between him and me. I pressed my arm through the mob and reached for the hem of his jacket. Not to grab, just to touch it. And when I did, my body changed. Instantly. My face rushed with warmth. I could breathe deeply. My back seemed to straighten. I stopped, letting the people push past. He stopped too. ‘Who touched me?’ he asked. I slid behind the big man again and said nothing. As he and the crowd waited, my heart pounded. From the healing? From fear? From both? I didn’t know. Then he asked again, ‘Who touched me?’ He didn’t sound angry--just curious. So I spoke up. My voice shook; so did my hands. The big man stepped away. Jesus stepped forward, and I told the whole story.’
‘The whole story?’ I asked.
‘The whole story,’ she replied.
I tried to imagine the moment. Everyone waiting as Jesus listened. The crowd waiting. The city leaders waiting. A girl was dying, people were pressing, disciples were questioning, but Jesus . . . Jesus was listening. Listening to the whole story. He didn’t have to. The healing would have been enough. Enough for her. Enough for the crowd. But not enough for him. Jesus wanted to do more than heal her body. He wanted to hear her story--all of it. The whole story. What a kind thing to do. The miracle restored her health. The kindness restored her dignity
And what he did next, the woman never forgot. ‘As if he hadn’t done enough already’--her eyes began to water---‘he called me ‘daughter.’ ‘Daughter, be of good cheer; your faith has made you well. Go in peace.’ I’ve been told he never used that word with anyone else. Just me.’
After she left, I checked. She was right.
The kindness of Jesus. We are quick to think of his power, his passion, and his devotion. But those near him knew and know God comes cloaked in kindness. . . . Kind enough to bless a suffering sister.”
. . . . .
“Jesus’ invitation offers the sweetest proof of the kindness of heaven:
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light. (Matthew 11:2830 NKJV)
Farmers in ancient Israel used to train an inexperienced ox by yoking it to an experienced one with a wooden harness. The straps around the older animal were tightly drawn. He carried the load. But the yoke around the younger animal was loose. He walked alongside the more mature ox, but his burden was light. In this verse Jesus is saying, ‘I walk alongside you. We are yoked together. But I pull the weight and carry the burden.’
I wonder how many burdens is Jesus carrying for us that we know nothing about? We’re aware of some. He carries our sin. He carries our shame. He carries our eternal debt. But are there others? Has he lifted fears before we felt them? Has he carried our confusion so we wouldn’t have to? Those times when we have been surprised by our own sense of peace? Could it be that Jesus has lifted our anxiety onto his shoulders and placed a yoke of kindness on ours?
And how often do we thank him for his kindness? Not often enough. But does our ingratitude restrict his kindness? No. ‘Because he is kind even to people who are ungrateful and full of sin’ (Luke 6:35).” (A love worth giving, 25-26, 27)

Here is what Mother Teresa says about kindness:
“It is better to make mistake in kindness than to work miracles with unkindness. It is very important to be kind to ourselves and control ourselves by keeping our balance. If we want to live in peace and harmony with each other we must pay attention to our tongue. Especially when we deal with the poor we must be very careful in talking to them.” (The Joy in Loving, 18 October)
“Be kind in your actions. Do not think you are the only one who can do the efficient work, work worth showing. This makes you harsh in your judgment of others who may not have the same talents. God will ask of that sister only what He has given her, and not what He has given you; so why interfere with the plan of God? All things are His, and He gives as He pleases. You do your best and think that others do their best for God’s own purpose. Their best may be a total failure--what is that to you? You follow the way He has chosen for you. For others also, let Him choose.” (A Life for God, 66)
“If sometimes we feel as if the Master is away, is it not because we have kept ourselves far from someone? One thing will always secure heaven for us: acts of charity and kindness with which we have filled our lives. We will never know how much good just a simple smile can do. We tell people how kind, forgiving, and understanding God is--are we the living proof? Can they really see this kindness, this forgiveness, this understanding, alive in us?” (A Life for God, 65)

06.12.2009 is a date to remember.
Sunday morning..8:40am..is a time to remember..

I'm very well blessed by God.
Faith in God to fight with the devils who trying hard to hinder me to go church once and once again.

and again, I THANK YOU LORD.
and a very valuable lesson indeed. (lesson pays the price!)

*gonna grab myself a nap now*
=tired=